I bought a lot of maternity clothes – in fact, I’ve got two weeks to go, and I still have quite a few things that I have yet to wear. I was so worried about building a maternity wardrobe for work that I ended up buying stuff that I’ve only worn once. Some clothes didn’t fit over multiple trimesters, other things were too much of a “statement piece” to wear repeatedly, and some stuff just didn’t work out.
In my building, our dress code is business casual. I can wear regular jeans on Fridays, and trouser jeans other days if I dress them up with accessories and shoes. Here are the fundamentals of my business casual work wardrobe. I’d focus my budget on these things if I was to re-build my maternity wardrobe from scratch.
- Maternity Tank Tops: I wear a maternity tank top almost every day – I wish I owned more than three (black, white, and navy). They’re great for layering under other low-cut tops and with open cardigans. You can probably get away with regular tanks for the first and second trimester, but you’ll really want the longer length in third trimester.
- Side-Ruched Tees: Side-ruched tees are another basic that I wear ALL the time. Even though temperatures are down into the 40s, when I want to layer clothes, pregnancy makes me too hot for a long sleeve base layer, so short sleeves are a must. I have found that side-ruched tees are the most flattering – the tighter bottom helps maternity pants look less awkward and a snug fit below my belly highlights the bump rather than enlarging it.
- Boyfriend Cardigans: Cardigans are fantastic because you can buy non-maternity versions (so much easier to find on sale) and wear them unbuttoned with a tank or tee underneath. When you’re no longer pregnant, they’re still a working part of your wardrobe. I probably have ten or fifteen cardigans I can wear in my third trimester, most of which were part of my pre-maternity wardrobe. Boyfriend styles work well because the longer length covers my butt, which I’m totally self-conscious about as I’ve expanded.
- Scarves: I probably own twenty different scarves – lightweight ones for the summer, and heavier ones for the winter. Some are solids (I wear a red one all the time), and some are patterns. Scarves work great when you’re pregnant because they can help cover up a low neckline or increasing cleavage and they add lots of variety to your wardrobe without a lot of expense. You can continue to wear them after the baby, too, so they’re useful well beyond nine months. My go to outfit is usually a tank top, open cardigan, and scarf.
- Ultimate Panel Pants: Gap’s ultimate panel pants are by far the most comfortable ones I own. I have two pairs – trouser jeans and black dress pants, both of which I wear every week. I love this panel because it was versatile for my whole pregnancy – it’s lower and thinner in the front, and higher in the back. All maternity pants fall down a little bit – this panel is way easier to slyly hike back up in front of 30 kids compared to a full panel.
- Denim Skirt: A denim skirt, paired with boots or ballet flats, was a staple of my non-maternity wardrobe, so it makes sense that I’d wear one to death while pregnant. It’s an easy basic and an alternative to pants that can be paired with almost everything I own. I own this specific one from Old Navy, and granted, the fit is a bit strange, but once I pull a long shirt over the top, it’s fine.
- Leggings: Leggings are an obvious pregnancy staple, but I had to include them because you can’t have a maternity wardrobe without a pair. I’ve been wearing them to work under empire waist dresses that I owned pre-pregnancy – the dresses are a little short now for me to feel comfortable wearing just tights, so this is a good way to stretch out my wardrobe. I can’t wear leggings as pants to work, but I totally do that around the house.
- Ballet Flats: Ballet flats, especially from Target, are cheap enough to buy in a bigger size if your feet swell. Most of the time, they’re also more comfortable than heels.
I mentioned that there are things I bought that I haven’t worn, or have only worn once. Here’s what I’d skip if I were to do it again:
- Woven maternity shirts. I have a few that I really like, but because they’re not stretchy, they didn’t expand with my belly. Skip button-ups in favor of knit shirts with spandex.
- Patterned shirts. I have some maternity shirts with fun, bright patterns. Although I love how I feel in them, they aren’t very versatile; I can’t wear it multiple times in a month because I feel like I’m repeating the same exact outfit. More subtle patterns or solids are easier to change up with cardigans, scarves and jewelry.
- Dresses. Dresses are sooo comfortable during pregnancy, and it makes it really easy to put an outfit together in the morning when you only need one piece, but unless it’s super basic (think black knit or stretch denim), it’s hard to get a lot of wear out of them. Many of the maternity dresses I own have busy prints, and it’s hard to blend them into a weekly rotation without it being obvious that I’m wearing the same thing over and over.
- Boots. Your calves and ankles are going to grow. Don’t waste money on boots in the first trimester that probably won’t fit by the third.
What maternity items get the most wear in your wardrobe? What would you skip buying if you had to do it over again?
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pomelo / 5789 posts
For me dresses have had the most rotation. I mostly stuck to black dresses though, so no noticeable print.
I liked the ultimate panel until about 24 weeks, then it started getting too uncomfortable and I had to switch to full panel.
grapefruit / 4669 posts
Is there anything I can do to make my calves and ankles not grow? I will be so sad if/when my boots stop fitting. At least Uggs should still fit.
Sounds like you have some great basics, I’m such a scarf person!
blogger / nectarine / 2687 posts
i’m cracking up because this is exactly what i wore today: jeans, tank, boyfriend cardi, scarf, and ballet flats. and i’m not pregnant!
blogger / pomelo / 5400 posts
@tororojo: Ha, I wish that had been the case. I grew out of my nice dress boots by the third tri … and I hate to say it, but my calves are still a bit bigger than before pre-preg and those boots aren’t nearly as comfy any more.
blogger / pear / 1964 posts
@Mrs. Cowgirl: Maybe that’s why the “uniform” works for me — it’s also my go-to non-pregnancy outfit.
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
Dresses have been a staple for both my pregnancies. They’re so easy to put on and comfy because they never restrict my belly, and I love wearing them for cooler weather with leggings and boots, or just wearing them on their own for warmer days.
blogger / nectarine / 2687 posts
@Mrs. Tricycle: i hear ya! i’m pretty sure i have cardigans in every color of the rainbow…i pretty much wear one every day to school!
honeydew / 7504 posts
I found the demi-panel pants way too uncomfortable after about 20 weeks – it felt like it was cutting me off! Maybe it’s all in how you carry, though!
bananas / 9973 posts
I think the best maternity basics depend on which season you are most pregnant in. I kind of wish I were pregnant more in the spring/summer so I could wear my maxi dresses everyday! It’s gone from hot straight to cold and my maternity leggings don’t seem warm enough! Even though I’ve stocked up on quite a bit of maternity basics, at 22 weeks I am finding that long tanks, the bella band, and hair elastic are stretching out my pre-p wardrobe a lot more than I expected! Ask me in another 3 months though! LOL!
P.S. I HOPE my boots will all still fit! I’ll be sobbing if they don’t!
GOLD / apricot / 341 posts
Maternity fashion is sooo difficult (the only thing harder is dressing for nursing) but I have had some success with GAP (casual tops and sweaters, jeans, bathing suit), ASOS (tops), TopShop (casual dresses, blouses, bathing suits), H&M (jeans, bathing suits), Boob (a black skirt that I wore with everything when expecting Baby#2). I also had a faux wrap dress (I think it’s called Annie) from Banana Republic that is not actually a maternity dress but that worked through my entire pregnancy and is great to nurse in as well.
I LOVE love LOVE the two pieces (slouch dress and jumper) that I got from Hatch Collection. I wish I would have invested in a couple more pieces by then and much earlier on in my pregnancy. I wore the jumper on so many occasions and it always made me feel so much more chic than anything else I had. I also love that they are made to wear even when you’re not pregnant. Unfortunately they’re not made to nurse in so they’re useless to me at the moment.
Next time (!?) I am going to shop Hatch early on and feel good about the way I look throughout my entire pregnancy.
blogger / pear / 1964 posts
@shopaholic: Season does make a huge difference! I wish I had been able to go longer with a band and hair elastics, but my butt and thighs grew too quickly for that to last very long.
blogger / pear / 1964 posts
@littlebug: I think these are different from a demi panel – I have a pair of jeans with a demi panel, and it definitely cuts into my belly. The band on the Gap ultimate panel is very thin and super soft and stretchy, so it doesn’t bother me the way the other demi panels do.
pomegranate / 3272 posts
Since I was in my second trimester during the hot summer months, I lived in dresses! And I wasn’t so large at that time so I could still wear some of my nonmaternity dresses.
Now that I’m about a week away from popping and it’s cold out, I’ve been layering my maternity shirts with my sweaters to get extra wear. I’m also super lucky that we can wear jeans every day at work. It’s saved be a lot of money on pants
apricot / 426 posts
Tanks for sure.
Also, I found it’s best to buy pants that fit a little loose early on in pregnancy, since I actually grew out of some of my maternity pants (my hips expanded). I had to buy a size up for my third trimester.
cherry / 187 posts
I totally agree on cardigans. I was in my third trimester in the summer so I wore dresses most of the time then. Could not have lived without them! I had mostly basic colors and not patterns to make it less obvious. I also agree on flats – could not live without those either!
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
I am only 20 weeks but I like the full panel 100% better then the demi panel pants that I have. The demi panel give me love handles. I am still able to wear a lot of my pre-preg shirts but I have a couple shirts with the ruched sides and I really like those so far.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
@Mrs. High Heels: agreed! I LOVED my dresses!!
@shopaholic: my maxi dress was my favorite too. I was pregnant over the winter as well and was bummed I could only wear it in the first and part of the second tri.
I agree with almost everything in this post! I loved my cardigans for sure. The gap essential ruched tank was a staple – I had two and wore them all the time!
However, not everyone (like me) gets bigger in the calves/feet… unless I’m the exception to the rule – my boots fit great! I didn’t buy them just for pg though – they were pre-baby. But I still wore them all the time.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
during the summer, dresses and skirts were my best friend!
since the fall, leggings, long tanks/tees, and oversize vests and sweaters have become staples!
pomegranate / 3383 posts
I was pregnant throughout the fall/winter so I lived in maternity leggings, boots, long stretchy tops and cardigans. also wore stretchy dresses and maternity nylons. I actually managed to not buy any maternity pants at all and only 3-4 tops. My pre-pregnancy wardrobe was oddly maternity-appropriate!
pomelo / 5331 posts
Great post! I always feel like I don’t have enough maternity clothes. I’ve grown out of everything I was able to wear in the first trimester — the shirts that were once long enough, are no longer. As for boots, NONE of my shoes fit except flip flops. My favorite flats are way too tight. So it’s not just my ankles and calves that are the problem — my entire FOOT has spread. It’s so depressing and I’m just grateful that my job has a casual dress code so I can wear flip flops every day (and that I live in Florida).
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
I totally agree on the tanks. In the end when things just kind of hurt, it felt good to have a tank, then a belly band then a shirt, just for a little more support. I know you probably don’t want to hear it, but you’ll probably be wearing the same wardrobe for the next few months. Although, you probably won’t be business casual at home
Good luck in your last few weeks!
grape / 85 posts
I wish I’d thought to get more more maternity shirts that could’ve doubled as nursing shirts. Then I would’ve felt more justified about spending the money…and I’d have felt more comfortable for longer, and had more choice in shirts!
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I disagree, look at http://www.hitherandthither.net/2013/10/maternity-clothes-you-actually-need.html