I did a lot of reading and procrastinating before finally deciding that our family needed to change our diet, because changing the way you’ve eaten your whole life is no easy task.
I was introduced to the GAPS diet last year when I posted about Charlie’s pickiness on my local parenting listserv. Then I discovered the awesome cookbook Nourishing Traditions and its website through Kristin, who also provided a great primer on the Paleo diet and raising a Paleo family in her recent guest post. Finally I read up the effects of wheat, how its composition has changed in the past century, and its effect on our bodies. All of these methods of eating are a little bit different, but the common theme is that we eat too many grains and processed foods, and not enough fresh meats, vegetables and fruits.
Charlie and Olive cooking pumpkin pie.
It just seemed to make a lot of sense to me. Charlie and Olive love processed food, bread and pasta, pretty much like all kids (and all adults for that matter). I used to rely heavily on carbs for easy, fast meals – pancakes, toast, cereal, bagels, and muffins for breakfast, nutrigrain bars as snacks, pasta for lunch or dinner — because I knew the kids would love it and eat it. But that also meant that they were filling up on grains, and eating less lean protein and produce. And the more grains they ate, the more they craved them.
I wanted Charlie to have a healthier, fresher diet, and hopefully address his constipation issues with dietary changes. I wanted Olive to have a broader palate and not end up becoming picky like her bother. And since Mr. Bee and I could definitely be eating much healthier to have more energy, lose weight, live longer, and set a good example for our kids, we recently decided to follow a Nourishing Traditions/Paleo lifestyle. The kids and I are more Nourishing Traditions, which allows dairy, rice and legumes, while Mr. Bee is more Paleo/Wheat Belly since he does not eat rice or gluten.
It’s definitely still an ongoing process, but we’ve eliminated processed and instant foods from our diet. We’ve reduced the amount of rice we consume, and eliminated most breads, pastas, and gluten. We’re avoiding products marketed as “gluten-free” because many of them do contain low levels of gluten, and are still highly processed. And we’re eating more lean meats, vegetables, and fruits than ever. We’re nowhere near perfect — I’m the one that cheats the most (and daily at that). But Mr. Bee is great at sticking to a diet, and the kids have no choice but to eat what I prepare. It’s not easy, but I really hope this is a healthy lifestyle change we can commit to forever.
The biggest challenge has actually been all the time investment. Between researching new recipes, grocery shopping, cooking, feeding the kids and cleaning up, I think I spend just as much time on food during the week as I do with the kids! So I’ve been thinking of a plan to hopefully streamline my cooking process in the next couple of weeks. This is what I’ve come up with:
- The same breakfast. Eat pretty much the same breakfast every day that requires minimal cook time. The kids have been eating eggs with grated parmesan cheese fried in a little bit of butter, with some fruit like avocado or banana, or a yogurt.
- The same lunches. Charlie gets a bento for lunch, and I pack the same things over and over so my process is pretty streamlined at the moment. It will be a little more difficult once Olive starts daycare because she eats more variety, and I want to prevent her from becoming picky like her brother.
- Crockpot meals. I’d love to prepare at least one crockpot meal a week. I’ve tried tons of recipes, but none have been big hits with my picky brood. Chili is a great crockpot meal that freezes well, but I’m on the lookout for a good bean-free recipe.
- Cooking for the weekend. We pretty much never eat out as a family of four, but that means I have to cook three meals every Saturday and Sunday. That’s been really tough to do because we’re usually out and about at the playground, on a playdate or some adventure, so I’d love to cook meals for the entire weekend on Fridays.
- Making your own stock. I’ve been making my own stock using the Nourishing Traditions recipe. It’s a lot of work and it’s honestly way more expensive than buying stock when you’re using an organic free-range chicken, but having my own stock on hand has really changed the way I cook. I freeze it in small portions, and use it for everything now! The best part is that it’s soooo good for you, and Charlie and Olive love it. When Charlie doesn’t want to eat, he will at least drink my nourishing, homemade, organic chicken stock, which makes me feel better when he doesn’t eat much for dinner.
- One pot meals & casseroles. I hardly ever used my oven because I mostly cooked Korean food my entire life, which doesn’t use the oven at all. But I’ve recently discovered the glory of the one pot meal or casserole. Toss all your protein and veggies into a casserole dish and bake. No need to stand over the stove, wash a ton of pots and pans, or worry about over/undercooking! Brilliant! Since using the oven is new to me, I’ve been trying lots of new recipes — some are hits and some aren’t. I’d love to have at least 5 casserole recipes that my family loves in rotation for easy dinners.
- Freezer meals. We have a small separate freezer so I batch cook and freeze a lot of food, particularly Korean soups. I always have something in our freezer that we can eat. Lately I’ve added mini meatballs to my frozen stash. They’re wonderful! You can freeze them raw or cooked, they freeze so well, and both Charlie and Olive love them. But what I really want to add is freezer meals where I batch prepare a bunch of dishes at once — ie chicken, veggies, herbs — and put them in gallon-sized ziploc bags and freeze them. Then I can defrost them in the fridge overnight, put everything in a casserole dish and bake. Once I really have this method down, I’m hoping I can reduce the number of nights I cook from 7 to 3.
- Meal plan. Since I’ve been trying so many new recipes lately, it’s been really difficult to meal plan. Meal planning saves so much time, makes grocery shopping easier, and takes the stress out of what you should make for dinner. It’s something I’ve never been very good with, but now that we have a family of four, I don’t think I can afford not to meal plan. It’s been so much more work to feed two kids!
As a busy mom, I want to take as many cooking shortcuts as I can, without sacrificing nutrition.
Do you have any cooking shortcuts you take to reduce the amount of time you spend on food prep and cooking? And have you changed the way your family eats since having kids?
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3. My Whole30 Experience (So Far...) by Mrs. High Heels
4. The Whole30 Made Easy by Mrs. High Heels
5. Toddler Paleo Lunches by Kristin @ Paleo Plus One
6. The Wonderful Pressure Cooker by Kristin @ Paleo Plus One
7. Changing the Way We Eat by Mrs. Bee
honeydew / 7589 posts
I don’t know much about the Paleo diet, but from what you’ve said it makes some sense. But what is the reasoning behind not eating beans?
cantaloupe / 6669 posts
This comes at a good time for me! DH & I are going to start eating Paleo-ish soon. Of course, I just downed a burrito, so obviously we’re not there yet.
I actually subscribe to a meal plan website called eMealz and they just released a Paleo meal plan, which was the impetus for me. Overall, I am just ready to stop living off bagels and muffins and granola bars, but I need a push. I wake up every day feeling hungover and it doesn’t feel good!
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
@Arden: in the paleo diet, beans shouldn’t be consumed because they need to be soaked and cooked before they can be edible (the cavemen didn’t eat them), and they say beans contain phytates which inhibit nutrient absorption and cause inflammation.
mr bee would eat the chili so that’s why i’m looking for a bean-free recipe. i’m not opposed to eating beans at the moment, but i don’t really eat them anyway.
honeydew / 7444 posts
That’s great, mrs.bee! DH and i make an effort to eat healthy, and we try to keep purchases of processed food to a minimum. On the weekend, i will make a meal plan for the following week and go grocery shopping based on that. I will also try to make one big dish on the weekend that i can spread out over the course of the week. I find that when i don’t plan out our meals, we end up buying lunch/dinner more often. We eat rice daily, but i don’t feel too bad since it’s brown rice. I try to cook at least two vegetables and one protein for our meals.
Have you ever made anchovy-based broth? It is so much quicker (and flavourful) than beef broth and it’s so nutritious (since it’s at the bottom of the food-chain it’s low in mercury)! I simmer wild anchovies, kelp, and garlic for 20 minutes and use it for everything. I’ve never used a crock-pot pre-baby, but now that i find myself with less time to cook i think i may have to start looking for some recipes. I hope you post some here!
grapefruit / 4669 posts
Wow, sounds like you’ve made some big changes! I’m impressed, because I have trouble changing even little things, like eating less processed meals. We are upping our fruits and veggies though; I guess you have to start somewhere!
GOLD / cantaloupe / 6703 posts
We are currently putting together frozen crock pot meals to have once LO is here. That might be another avenue for you to consider. I’d love to hear what oven meals or crock pot meals you find! Right now, we eat a fair amount of carbs, but we are freezing some meat and veggie soups to use in the crock pot, and other meals like that.
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
@caffeinated: many of the Korean soups I make are anchovy broth based, but I haven’t frozen any. I should make a big batch — good idea!
wonderful clementine / 24134 posts
I really need a push to get us started into this direction as well!
We have a quiet weekend coming up, so maybe I will spend some time picking out a meal plan!
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
@MaisyMay: yup frozen crock pot meals are great too!
cantaloupe / 6206 posts
@Mrs. Bee: I was pretty good about eating Paleo til I got pregnant, now all I want is cheese and bread
Would you mind creating a different post with some of your recipes, especially the crockpot meals and one-dish dinners? I’m always on the lookout for new recipes. I adore this cookbook: http://www.amazon.com/Primal-Blueprint-Quick-Easy-Meals/dp/0982207743 but any other ideas you have, I’d love to read!
honeydew / 7444 posts
@Mrs. Bee: I made and froze so much pre-delivery. It was a huge time saver afterward!
nectarine / 2504 posts
I’d love to see some of your Paleo casserole/crockpot recipes!
cherry / 187 posts
I’ve been thinking about doing this too – although I’m not sure I’d be very strict about it. I like the idea of less processed and grain food. We’ve tried to stay away from processed stuff like cheerios, goldfish, etc with my daughter as snacks. I’d rather her eat fruit, veggies, or other protein instead.
I’ve love some menu ideas and to see what you pack in your bentos for Charlie. I pack my daughter’s lunched for daycare too.
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
i definitely plan on posting recipes and bento ideas!
cherry / 110 posts
We are really trying to commit to the Primal/Paleo diet. I think the hardest for us is breakfast because we’re always rushing in the morning. I actually find dinners so much easier now that we’ve cut out so many carbs and cheese. Also, my grocery bill each week is way down. We shop at Costco once a month and stock up on the organic meats there so I always have protein on hand. Also, I buy canned tomatoes in bulk b/c they are easy to make into a number of recipes. I add my own seasonings so it’s cheaper than buying pasta sauce (that has added sugar and salt and such). Of course spaghetti was a staple b/f we made the switch, so now we eat spaghetti squash with meat sauce about once a week. I actually like cooking it better (I hated to boil water and I just microwave the SS) and I love the texture and taste. We also like to get a rotisserie chicken about once a week…they are cheap and taste delicious and there’s lots of left overs. We also like to freeze meatballs (although I make them larger) and cook up batches for lunches. That way if there’s no leftovers from dinner (or we ate out) then we can grab some meatballs and a salad and have lunch ready.
I would also love to hear what paleo casserole/crockpot meals you make! I just started using a crockpot and the first meal I tried was a non-repeater. So, I would love more inspiration.
apricot / 453 posts
The Pioneer Woman has a great bean free (bean optional) chili recipe. Not sure if the rest of the ingredients follow the Paleo diet but it may be worth checking out….oh and you’d probably have to omit the Fritos.
Do you and @Mr. Bee feel healthier (i.e. have more energy) with the diet changes?
bananas / 9973 posts
Sounds like you’ve made big lifestyle changes for the better! My BIL is Paleo and my sister is 2nd-hand Paleo she says. But I find that it’s often hard when we want to eat Asian meals with him. With them, it’s often all meat and salads.
His favorite is Korean BBQ, no rice. But DH and I find it awfully hard to enjoy a lot of our asian meals without any rice or noodles. How do manage this BIG change?
The bean thing was pretty confusing too b/c he doesn’t even eat bean noodles.
I’d LOVE to see posts on the menus you come up with! Especially crockpot meals!
grapefruit / 4235 posts
I found this site the other night when I was looking for a curry for freezer-to-crockpot cooking: http://paleopot.com/
also, have you tried doing your stock in the crockpot? I roast a chicken, pick the meat off, then put the bones in a crockpot, cover in water, with some peppercorns, bay leaves, onions, celery and carrots all day. 8 hrs on low and boom, chicken stock.
cantaloupe / 6730 posts
What is the difference between Nourishing Traditions and Paleo?
@tororojo: I have a friend who is one of the healthiest people I know. I asked her what her trick was to eating so well, and she said that she focuses on veggies and fruits first. This automatically made her eat less of the carbs and processed food because she had filled up on the veggies and fruits. So I’d say thay by you trying to eat more fruits and veggies might naturally make you eat better.
honeydew / 7488 posts
@Mrs. Bee: This is a great to see how others are trying to improve their family diets. i’m curious to know how you guys eat the Korean soups without rice… I also make some Korean style soups for the kids and I just can’t imagine eating seaweed soup for example without rice?
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
@shopaholic: @T-Mom: paleo doesn’t let you eat rice, but i’m not following paleo. i could never do a diet that made me give up rice! we eat brown rice though, and not almost every night like we used to.
@dagret: i started my last batch on the stove to get it piping hot and have all the fat rise to the surface, then i transferred it to my crock pot. i think next time i will just go straight to the crock pot. i let it cook for 24 hours!
@Grace: you can’t eat legumes or dairy on paleo. it’s more restricting.
GOLD / pear / 1845 posts
We try to eat like this as well, but it fluctuates with the sleep I’m getting and how I feel (we ate really poorly for us while I was pregnant). We do eggs, bacon and a yogurt fruit smoothly for breakfast every day, which has made a big difference to my energy levels. Now that it’s cooler, my goal is to do some sort of roast meat once a week and eat leftovers and bone broth soup from it all week. I count homemade broth as cheaper because it just comes with the meat.
@Grace: nourishing traditions allows sprouted and/or soaked grains and legumes as well as raw/cultured dairy. Paleo cuts those foods out. So NT has more variety but is also more work.
grapefruit / 4235 posts
@Mrs. Bee: If i put starchier veggies (like cabbage or shredded brussel sprouts) in my stir fries or curries I don’t use rice. Doesn’t seem to really need it.
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I like to freeze stock in ice cube trays so I can quickly pop them out and they melt quickly. I do this for broth for Korean soups (anchovy broth, pork and beef). Then I pop them into ziplock bags. Quick and easy. I also do all my grocery shopping on a Sunday and prep everything for the week. I chop my onions, cut up my scallions, chop my garlic, and other vegetables and dump portion sized prepped veggies into containers. Then I marinate my meat for the week. Then when it’s time to make dinner, all my prep work is done for me. Just dump and cook. I also make tons of pasta sauce all at once and freeze those along with meatballs, japchae, boochim, dumplings. Basically I cook all evening Sunday to make the rest of the week a breeze.
clementine / 780 posts
We follow a “Primal” diet ( basically we do some dairy) and It has changed our lives tremendously!
Love bone broth too! Keep it up!
coconut / 8279 posts
Interesting! Is it possible to eat this diet while being a vegetarian? We eat a lot of good, fresh food, but you’re right that it’s so easy to rely on breads, muffins, pasta, etc., in a pinch.
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I’d be curious what snacks you’re giving the kiddos now the you’re avoiding the carbs like puffs and mum mums.
grapefruit / 4582 posts
I wish I could be Paleo. DH was before our wedding at he lost so much weight and said he felt a million times better. I love cheese and pasta too much
I also just don’t think I like enough vegetables to make it healthy. I literally have to sneak veggies into meals. My parents were terrible with food choices for me and my sister growing up and I pretty much have the palate of a 3 year old. sigh.
However I am trying harder now that DD is eating solids and I really hope she influences what I chose to eat.
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
@rachiecakes: i’m not sure…. where would you get your protein from?
@theresa – charlie’s snacks are yogurt and fruit, especially fruit leather. he also loves pickles and olives. but his daycare also gives the kids things like goldfish and graham crackers. we won’t be able to control everything he eats, and i’m ok with that.
olive is going to be tougher. sometimes she throws fits when we’re out. she can’t walk so sometimes she has to sit in the stroller or carrier for a long time, and she gets antsy since she’s older. it’s so easy to give her snacks to pacify her. but she’s young enough that if we don’t give her any, she won’t know the difference.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
LOVE this post!!! My family has become hooked on the Nourishing Traditions book and it’s really fascinating!! I go between that and paleo as well.
I always soak my beans and nuts overnight, so I don’t have any issues eating legumes and in that way I’m not paleo.
We love meat, but like you said it’s so much more expensive, so it tends to be more of a “treat” than a consistent item. We are hoping to buy a small freezer and purchase a 1/4 cow at some point in the near future. We are only able to afford it about 2-3 meals a week… sometimes not even that often.
The time is definitely one of the hardest aspects of it; recipes, meal planning, budgeting, preparation, dishes, cooking etc – it is a lot of effort and it’s been REALLY easy to get discouraged. But I think about Cobi and how I want him to grow up with healthy food – and a healthy relationship with food – and it gives me motivation. I definitely have higher standards for him than I do for myself. Definitely working hard to change that!!
Re: mealplanning: I try to plan one crockpot meal a week, one soup and one burger. Burgers vary from black bean burgers, turkey wildrice, grass-fed beef or sweet potato. With the soups, I make a big stockpot and freeze at least 6 portions that DH can take to work, or I can eat for lunch/dinner when I’m home alone.
persimmon / 1255 posts
Congratulations on changing your diet! Cooking from scratch is definitely a time-drain but it looks like you’re well on your way to mastering it.
Following the GAPS diet, we aren’t allowed to eat most beans. However, navy beans and lentils are allowed after you soak it for 24 hrs. I usually soak and cook a huge batch and then freeze into smaller portions to use later.
A couple of my favorite soup recipes:
Alton brown’s lentil soup recipe (my LO loves this one)
http://www.foodnetwork.com/recipes/alton-brown/lentil-soup-recipe/index.html
This eggplant supper soup is also hearty and delicious. I can literally eat this every day (just omit the pasta): http://allrecipes.com/recipe/eggplant-supper-soup/
I also developed a spicy basil eggplant recipe that is super yummy. Haven’t perfected it yet but when I do, I’ll write a post.
persimmon / 1255 posts
Oh, and freeze-dried fruit is also a nice healthy alternative snack for the kids. It is on the expensive side, although you can find better deals at Trader Joes and Costco.
honeydew / 7968 posts
can’t wait for you to post recipes! i really need some ideas, especially since my babies are eating solids!
nectarine / 2750 posts
I have been following a Paleo diet for about a year and a half and most of the suggestions I would make are ones you have covered! On Sundays we try to cook a bunch of chicken, grill some burgers and throw a roast in the crock pot. We also roast a batch of sweet potatoes and maybe make a pesto or other sauce we can use throughout the week. Then when meal time rolls around we just have to make the side dishes.
I also try to plan out my meals for the week in advance. That way I can incorporate things I have cooked ahead on Sunday and plan to make big meals with leftovers for lunches the next day. It helps us save money by not purchasing too much food, too.
I recently bought Nourishing Traditions, too! I am going back to school for Holistic Nutrition and it is one of my school books.
I even made a recipe from the book as one of my assignments.
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
@theknest: i’ve been cheating even though the kids and mr bee haven’t, so i don’t feel better yet!
@Red: oooo thanks! i’ve been wanting to make lentil soup since i had we had some at a friend’s house!
pear / 1586 posts
re: chili — you can just replace the beans with any veggies that you like. I don’t really follow a recipe for chili (and I usually use black beans in it), but here’s what I’d suggest —
1. saute ground meat of your choice (beef, turkey, chicken, etc.) in a heavy-bottomed pot (le creuset dutch oven is perfect for this!), remove meat from pan. (may need to use a little oil if you’re using a lean meat.)
2. cook diced onion (any kind you like) in remaining fat in pan. when onion is mostly translucent, add a few diced cloves of garlic and saute for 1-2 minutes.
3. add diced zucchini, carrots, bell peppers, sweet potato (any veggie you like! seriously), coat with tomato paste (a couple squirts from a tube).
4. add canned diced tomatoes (any variety you like; 2 15-oz cans), a bottle of beer, some stock (the chicken stock you already make! so easy), and spices to taste (I use chili powder, cayenne, paprika, and cumin). vary the amount of liquid you add based on how thick/thin you like your chili. you can always add in more later!
5. add the meat back in and simmer for a few hours on low heat. have mr. bee taste and tell you whether to add more spices!
cherry / 189 posts
@Mrs. Bee love reading about healthy things to feed the bebes. Figuring out what to make for my 7 month old every day is already stressing me out, and we just started! Wanted to share – this chili is beanless and AMAZING for fall:
http://yesiwantcake.com/2012/09/26/butternut-squash-turkey-chili/
kiwi / 711 posts
@Mrs. Bee: There is a new cookbook that came out called Paleo Slow Cooking. I haven’t had a chance to check it out yet but it looks promising
http://www.barnesandnoble.com/listing/2687190482915?cm_mmc=GooglePLA-_-Book-_-Q000000633-_-2687190482915&cm_mmca2=pla&r=1
This is also my favorite Paleo Chili. It is really good.
http://everydaypaleo.com/2010/02/06/super-bowl-2010/
blogger / nectarine / 2687 posts
i really, really want to try this. a couple of friends are doing the whole 30 and i think we might dive into it soon!
GOLD / wonderful pomegranate / 28905 posts
I love your post!!! I think it’s so important for people to realize that to eat healthier means you have to change your eating lifestyle not go on some fad diet.
I am extremely impressed being Asian you have cut your rice intake! I’ve inadvertently cut mine big time bc it bloats my husband too much. But I still crave it and need rice at least once every 2 weeks!
Beef stew is a great one for the crock pot. jambalaya is a good one pot (many!) meal.
Don’t forget too that pork bones also makes great stock. Whenever we have beef that has bones we save the bones then when we have enough accumulated we make Pho.
The concept of canned stock is so American to me. I always make my own stock when we need broth. It is so much better! Once M is ready for it I’ll start using organic chicken as well.
GREAt post!
GOLD / apricot / 341 posts
We are a vegetarian family (my husband and children are vegetarian. I am not, but I don’t eat meat etc at home). So paleo wouldn’t really be for us. But we keep processed foods to a minimum and eat as many fruits and veggies as we possibly can.
For me, meal planning started to work when I stopped thinking in terms of a weekly plan and started thinking 3-day. I plan 3 dinners at a time (plus lunches for the weekend). A couple of nights a week we will end up ordering in or going out or my MIL brings a meal over, so I usually end up grocery shopping (with the stroller) every 5 days or so. Also, we have a weekly organic fruit and veg delivery. That means less dragging home heavy grocery bags for me, and it means that we eat a variety of fruits and veggies that we probably wouldn’t think to buy.
cherry / 202 posts
This is also a good source for Paleo diet, they have an amazing cauliflower fried rice that my kiddies love.
http://nomnompaleo.com/recipeindex
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just came across this post bee- good for you! and lots of great ideas here! i agree with keeping things simple- same breakfast and same lunch every day allows you to eat on autopilot at least part of the day. it gets exhausting overanalyzing every single meal. cheers to great health!
bananas / 9973 posts
Re-reading this post and wondering if there has been an update on this subject? I’d love to hear how maintainable it has been?
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
@shopaholic: we still eat healthy and pretty much gluten-free, but omg i am the worst at meal planning. i just can’t get it together!