We started Baby Led Weaning (BLW) just shy of Baby Stroller’s 6 month birthday. The “weaning” part of BLW doesn’t mean to wean from breast milk as the U.S. definition of weaning might suggest, rather it means to introduce supplementary foods to a baby’s diet. For the first 12 months, breast milk is best (for breastfed babies, of course.) With BLW you skip the purees, which aren’t necessary now that the AAP has issued guidelines that all healthy babies should delay all solids until at least 6 months, and head straight to the table food.
For the first month or so Baby Stroller’s solids diet consisted of occasional “meals” where he’d sit in his highchair and we’d give him bits of this and that from the fridge. His very first solid food was half of an apple, which he creatively used his bib to hold in his mouth.
Contrary to my intuition, big pieces of food worked best in the early stages. Babies don’t have a pincher grasp at 6 months nor can they open and close their fists to shovel food into their mouth; so food that’s big enough to stick outside of both sides of their fist and firm enough not to get crushed works best in the early stages of BLW.
Some of our early successes included toast fingers (a slice of oatmeal bread – you want to avoid super high fiber grains as they can hinder absorption of nutrients), toasted and cut into three slices, roasted sweet potato rounds, halves of ripe fruit with the skin on, and bananas with a bit of the skin left on to act as a handle.
With all fruits make sure to scrub them very well before serving – including melons, mangoes and other things you cut or peel since salmonella can contaminate your knife or peeler.
After a few weeks of BLW we discovered that Baby Stroller had a possible gluten allergy. The AAP doesn’t recommend delaying most foods unless you have a family history of food allergies and we do not. We don’t yet know for sure if he has an allergy, testing will take place this month, but we’ve been playing it safe in the gluten department for the past few months. There are early studies that show delaying food could result in more allergies! However, never give babies honey before age 1. Not raw, not baked, not cooked. Honey can contain botulism spores that are fatal for babies; heat doesn’t always kill the spores. Also, avoid whole nuts as they are a choking hazard, and minimize salt as much as possible. Babies’ kidneys aren’t developed enough to handle a lot of sodium so keep their intake below 200mg a day – it’s very, very little, so make sure you read labels.
Around 6.5 months we started to do breakfast every day and at 7 months Baby Stroller really started to consume his foods as evidenced by his diapers. His pincher grasp developed around 7 months too, which opened up a whole new world of food. The blueberry obsession started right around this time as did the one for fresh mozzarella cheese.
I started to get really adventurous with food this summer, offering different textures and flavors. It turns out Baby S likes his food spicy! Puffs dipped in salsa? Yes please! Curry lentil? Spicier the better!
Baby Stroller doesn’t have any teeth yet, but that never seems to get in the way of his little vacuum cleaner belly. Here are some of the things we’ve tried during his first few months of BLW:
- Apples, halved – these work best when zapped in the microwave for a few seconds to soften them up. Make sure to cool them well before serving, or prepare the night before and store in the fridge overnight
- Ripe peaches, plums, pears, etc. – I quarter them for him and sometimes remove the skins. If you keep the skins on, just watch for when most of the flesh of the fruit is gone and then take the skin away. I’ve found that he’s really good at spitting out the skin when he’s done with the fruit
- Blueberries, blackberries, raspberries – I crush the blueberries slightly to break the skin and have only used frozen blackberries and raspberries so they’re already soft
- Cherries – pitted and quartered
- Melon – very ripe and cut into big wedges, not cubes
- Mango – very ripe, peeled and cut into strips
- Prunes – chopped into several small pieces – Baby S has two prunes every day
- Oranges, quartered
- Strawberries – I waited until he had a pincher grasp and cut them into very small pieces – watch for a reaction from strawberries and tomato
- Tomatoes – again, like strawberries I cut these into little pieces. Baby Stroller spit up after having a lot of tomato once and I haven’t given them in large quantities since – mostly because I hoard tomatoes for myself. Selfish mommy.
- Sweet potatoes – cut in rounds, drizzled with olive oil and cracked pepper, roasted at 350 until soft, still firm enough to grasp. French fry / “finger”size pieces work well too
- Avocado – cut into wedges – at first we gave them to him with the skin on so he’d have something to “grip” and now he eats them without skins
- Mashed potatoes – I mash ours with a touch of cow’s milk and add spices
- Turnips – mashed
- Squash – mashed with spices
- Grilled salmon – a huge hit and great brain food! Baby Stroller has salmon once a week
- Turkey meatballs
- Pasta – we chose a gluten free variety for Baby Stroller
- Fresh mozzarella cheese – I cut off a 1oz round from a log of mozzarella and cut it into chunks – mozzarella is one of our go-to proteins in the morning
- Pancakes – try a whole grain variety instead of white flour and try adding ground flax to the mix
- Waffles – ditto whole grain pancakes
- Breakfast sausage – remove the casings before offering sausage and watch the sodium levels of the rest of the day’s food
- Smoke salmon – also watch the sodium levels
- Hummus – Baby Stroller likes his hummus on puffs – he’s a big fan of zesty lemon flavor
- Yogurt – whole milk yogurt is great for babies because their developing brains need more fat than we do – I load the spoon for Baby Stroller and let him hold it
- Applesauce – unsweetened – yummy, but messy
- Chicken – strips are easier to grasp and suck on – Baby Stroller isn’t a huge rotisserie chicken fan, but he does like chicken in curry
- Lentils – we make curried lentils and let Baby Stroller go to town with his hands. It’s messy, but he shovels every last bit into his mouth!
- Chickpeas – straight from can (rinsed well) and crushed a little to take the “round” out of them. Sometimes I crush them in my hand, sometimes with the back of a fork
- Steamed Broccoli – broccoli is one of the only things Baby S isn’t interested in eating. I imagine if I put spices on it, he’d like it
- Zucchini – cut into thick rounds, drizzled with olive oil and sautéed with onions and garlic
- Corn, lima beans, peas – fresh or frozen – avoid canned because of extra sodium
- Watermelon – cut into a wedge – Watermelon is one of the only things Baby S had trouble eating. He gags a lot with it no matter how I cut it, so I’ve taken off the menu this year. I think he likes it so much that he eats it too quickly and doesn’t mash it around in his mouth enough before swallowing. However, friends in my due date group say their babies have no problems with watermelon
- Eggs – We started whole eggs early, but Baby S didn’t start to love them until 8 months. Make sure the yolks are cooked through
- Rice crackers – we spread them with hummus or sunbutter (like peanut butter but made from sunflower seeds)
- Lobster – in tiny pieces since it’s a little hard to chew
- Steak – cut into strips – it’s hard to chew, but the flavor is there. I have minced it into little pieces, which Baby S was able to consume a bit better
- Ribs – Baby S really liked ribs. I tore the meat off the bone and shredded it from one rib and then let him gnaw on the second. Super treat!
- Oatmeal – I cook ours with raisins or craisins and share with him – of course he usually ends up eating most of it and I’m left hungry!
- French toast – served without syrup for baby, but with syrup for mommy
I also bake things like oatmeal “cake” and pumpkin oatmeal flax pancakes that I keep on hand in the freezer for days when we have little leftover from the previous night’s dinner to offer him.
At 9 months old we’re still doing one meal a day together at breakfast and breast milk for the rest of the day. Baby Stroller is smaller but still sticking to his growth curve and sleeps really well at night, so we’re sticking with that routine for now. However, very occasionally we’ll offer a snack, if we’re eating out at lunch or Mr. S and I are having our dinner early, before Baby S goes to bed. On hand we have the following commercial “baby” snack foods:
- Belle’s Biscuits – available at Whole Foods
- Puffs – a great vehicle for dipping in hummus, salsa, tzatziki, etc.
- Yogurt drops – I keep a package in my purse
We love Baby Led Weaning and can’t imagine having gone the traditional puree route; Baby Stroller hasn’t eaten anything I haven’t eaten and enjoyed myself! He continues to surprise me with the variety and quantity of foods he enjoys every day. And a big bonus is that BLW has pushed Mr. S and me to vary our dinners so that we can encourage Baby S to try new foods in the morning.
What have been some of your baby’s favorite early foods?
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6. Getting Started with Solids, Purees, and Baby-led Weaning by Mrs. Bee
7. Time for Big-Boy Food by Mrs. Yoyo
8. My Modified Baby-Led Weaning Approach by Mrs. Pen
9. Little Tea Cup versus the spoon - part 2 - favourite first finger foods by Mrs. Tea
10. Starting Solids with Baby Led Weaning: A Conservative Approach by Mrs. Markers
11. Starting Baby Led Weaning by Mrs. Chipmunk
cantaloupe / 6923 posts
Awesome, I wanted to hear more about BLW. I love your posts and your baby is soooooooooo cute! Thanks for this!
squash / 13199 posts
wow I wasnt aware that babies could eat meat before having teeth!
coconut / 8305 posts
Great post! We’re planning on doing BLW so it’s great to see how you prepared some of the foods! DD is just past the 5mth mark and pays no mind to food or us eating yet and is still working on sitting up so I figure we still have a bit before we start. I’m definitely in no rush. lol
I do wonder though, I’ve had to remove quite a few things from my bf’ing diet b/c DD has shown symptoms of intolerance so I don’t think I’d feel comfortable giving her any of those things at this point…. we plan to start trying to add them back in at the earliest 9 months. Guess till then we can just substitute like I do now. =)
honeydew / 7504 posts
This post is fantastic. Thank you for breaking down all the things you’ve given Baby Stroller! It will be such a huge help once we start BLWing (you know, 10 months from now after LO finally arrives and is 6 months old, hee hee).
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
Thank you for the list of foods you have tried! I love that he used his bib to eat the apple. Smart cookie. Has baby Stroller choked on anything during this time of trials with food? That’s my biggest worry with BLW.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
Love this Not sure how feasible it will be to train my mom (she’ll be our primary caretaker after I go back to work) on BLW, but such good notes!
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What a great resource this is! Especially love the ideas for “larger” foods versus cutting everything up tiny. Bookmarking this, thanks!
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
@mediagirl: There’s a big difference between choking and gagging – choking is when their airway is blocked, which has definitely never happened. He does gag every now and then, more so when we first started, but it’s all about learning how much food he can put in his mouth and moving it around. Bigger foods resulted in much less gagging for us.
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
@mrsjyw: We spent our first 2.5 months of BLW at my parents’ house and it was definitely a change for my mom! I had her read the first 50 pages of the BLW cookbook. It explains everything including the safety tips – it made everyone a lot more comfortable.
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
@mrsjyw: Forgot one thing – at 9 months Baby Stroller still doesn’t take a meal at daycare, so for the first 3 months we’re the only ones giving him solid meals. By the time LO is having lunch with your mom, he/she might be at the stage that your mom would have been doing table food when you were a baby
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
@runsyellowlites: I only cut an extra cup of coffee from my diet with LO, so I don’t have much experience with elimination diets. However, a couple moms in my BF support group said that their babies transitioned to the foods the mom had to avoid without any trouble. Of course, personally I wouldn’t offer those offending foods at the very beginning. I do know that yogurt is different from milk because of how the enzymes in it are broken down, so babies can eat it much earlier than they can cow’s milk.
pea / 19 posts
Oh, how I wish I’d done BLW with my daughter, who is now 19 months and has a very limited list of foods that she will eat. I worry about that every day.
pomegranate / 3225 posts
Sooo good to know!
wonderful olive / 19353 posts
Love your posts on BLW! I’m favoriting for future reference. this is such a great way to get kids to start eating a variety of foods.
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
@Boots McGee: @Alivoo01: He definitely eats a huge variety now and I’m crossing my fingers he continues to do so as he gets older!
clementine / 957 posts
Favorited this post on my google reader This is a great tool and breakdown!
pomegranate / 3658 posts
This is a huge eye-opener for me. No purees at all anymore, eh? No choosing between Gerber jars or putting your own mixes into the food processor? This sounds awesome and fun and I love it.
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
@PawPrints: So. Awesome. I returned all the little storage containers and tons of spoons and little “baby food” feeding things I got as shower gifts and had over $100 to put towards things we really needed like a new car seat! Or more blueberries
honeydew / 7968 posts
wow. i’m very interested in this! can you tell us what book you used? also, did you use cereal at all?
i would love to know what you started first. did you do one food at a time for a week or so?
clementine / 990 posts
Buhahaha! Those pictures gave my husband heart palpatations. I think this is a great theory. Just hard to convince daddy…
pomelo / 5321 posts
I love this post! I wish I had done BLW with my LO. I think he would be a much better eater if we had.
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@Mrs. Stroller Do you know if it’s possible to transition to this after we’ve been dong purees for 2 months?
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
@Yuri: Yes, I think you probably could. Babies usually start to transition to table food around 8 or 9 months anyway. A lot of the women in my December group wish they had started BLW from the start since things are so much easier with table food. Good luck!
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
@tequiero21: I used the BLW cookbook and regular book. The cookbook covers all the basics in the first 50 pages, so I think it’s really all you need. I did no “baby” cereals – they’re really not very nutritious and I preferred to give him my milk for his main nutrition and table food to explore. We did zero puree, cereal, or other “baby” food. Good luck!
honeydew / 7968 posts
@Mrs. Stroller: thx! Can I ask what cookbook or is it call blw cookbook lol….
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
@tequiero21: Sorry! I meant to post a link:
http://www.amazon.com/The-Baby-Led-Weaning-Cookbook-Nutritious/dp/1615190309
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I suspect my baby has a gluten and milk intolerance. Did you use gluten free bread for the toast fingers?? Any other gluten free baby products you can recommend. I see that you had testing done. How was that? I am thinking about getting him tested before I give him wheat since he is reacting to it through my milk or so I think (spots on face, congestion, constipation, etc to name a few).
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
@leslie: I’ve heard from a lot of people in my breastfeeding support group that what the baby is sensitive to in their mom’s milk doesn’t necessarily mean they’ll be sensitive to it in food form. Baby S was not sensitive to anything in my milk and has a gluten intolerance (testing shows it’s not a true allergy, so he should grow out of it, thank goodness.) His first toast fingers were regular toast and he was fine with them. It was about the 6th time eating bread that we had the problem. You’ll know it if you have it – violent vomiting for hours, repeat the next time he had a bread-like product.
We really don’t use any baby products. I just feed him regular adult food. Because he’s mostly breastfed I choose not to give him many bulky “filling” grains and focus on a lot of veggies and proteins in various forms. We do a lot of cheese and yogurt, meats, beans (tons of beans), fruits & veggies and when I do give him grains it’s using GF oatmeal and flax. I grind up the oatmeal to make a powder to create pancakes and other stuff like that (there’s a link to a recipe for the pancakes I make him in the post.)
Babies don’t have the enzyme to digest cow’s milk until they’re closer to a year old, however, yogurt is digestible. I like the yobaby organic yogurt from Stonyfield Farms, although I didn’t really start yogurt until 7m.
My biggest advice is to just keep it simple and remember that it’s about exploring tastes and textures, not about sustenance in the beginning. Good luck and have fun!
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You said that for yogurt you loaded up a spoon–what type of spoon?
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
Dana – we have Take & Toss spoons that I like the most and we use the most, but also have an OXO toddler spoon and fork set that I like.
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Good to know! I was trying to imagine a baby holding a spoon and just assuming it would end up all over the floor. This is the first I am really looking into BLW. My son is 6 months. The idea excites and scares me, I can’t get past not thinking he is going to choke! Our doctor said we could give him eggs. You say you give them whole. Like a hard boiled egg? I tried scrambled and chopped them up alot but he couldn’t seem to swallow them very well.
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
Dana – whole as in egg white and yolk – I usually gave them scrambled. Now I do scrambled with a little sausage mixed in or as a cheese and veggie omelet. He never liked hard boiled and I would definitely not start with hard boiled, it’s too chewy and wouldn’t “mash” in their mouth well.
grapefruit / 4923 posts
LO is 4.5 months and i’m starting to research solids/purees/BLW–thank you for this helpful post, especially all the food recommendations!
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just a heads up, fiber doesn’t hinder with nutrients absorption unless you take 40 grams and more in a day. And that’s a shitload of vegetables/fruits, since usually fiber only comes in small amount in each veg/fruit.
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
Martha: that was said with regards to the “fiber fortefied” breads which can have upwards of 20gm per slice, not fruits & veggies.
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This is so helpful! We just started BLW with our 6-month-old and so far it’s going great. We’ve only introduced individual fruits and veggies (sweet potato fries, avocado, banana, broccoli, etc). At what point did you start serving actual recipes, like pancakes, pasta, chicken dishes, etc.? I’m both eager and hesitant to introduce foods with so many ingredients. xx Risa
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This is so helpful! We just started BLW with our 6-month-old and so far it’s going great. We’ve only introduced individual fruits and veggies (sweet potato fries, avocado, banana, broccoli, etc). At what point did you start serving actual recipes, like pancakes, pasta, chicken dishes, etc.? I’m both eager and hesitant to introduce foods with so many ingredients. xx Risa
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At 5 months old, our little one loved jackfruit! We may need to return to Thailand just to get some more. It’s not slimy so it is easy to hold, the taste isn’t too strong and it releases juices when you chomp on it. Noms!
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We are a half BLW family so far! (Kiddo is 8.5 months now) I spoon feed a few things she seems to really enjoy – pureed carrots, whole grain oatmeal, greek yogurt… but we also have fun with chunks and self-feeding – apple slices, banana chunks, sweet potato, puffs of course! Thanks for all of the awesome ideas – can’t wait to try more and use the spoon less! She gags sometimes when she gets too confident, it freaks me out every time, so that might be way I’m not all in yet… any advice?
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I should add — it’s been fun to try our food – mild chili, hummus and chicken, scrambled eggs, potatoes from a roast, etc! We’re getting there and loving the chance to experiment Thanks again for the inspiration!
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Thanks for sharing. We just started doing blw and your list of foods will be of great help. So excited to try all of them with our little Queen B.
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I started BLW with my son when he turned 6m, now he is 8m but suddenly lost interest in food these past couple weeks. He will repeatedly grab and release, put it in and out of his mouth without chewing and also spit out most of his food that he does eat.
Anyone else experienced this with your baby? My husband is beginning to lose faith in BLW and want me to feed him puree.