The Pros and Cons of Hiring a Nannies vs. Daycare
Often the decision between hiring a nanny or sending your child to daycare is a financial one, and how much childcare costs largely depends on what part of the country you live in. Since Charlie has had both a full-time nanny and is now attending full-time daycare, I thought I’d share my experiences with childcare costs to give you a general sense. Keep in mind that I live in New York where the cost of childcare is probably higher than many parts of the country.
The Cost of a Nanny
– Salary & Benefits: The average pay for a nanny is about $15/hour in our neighborhood. They typically get paid 52 weeks a year, including holidays, vacation, sick/personal days, and any days you may travel. Most nannies work between 40-50 hours/week, which comes out to $2400 – $3000/month at a $15/hour rate. Please note that many nannies are paid off the books or do not have green cards in our neighborhood. In interviewing such potential candidates, I’ve found that they sometimes make slightly less per hour.
– Raises & Bonuses: Raises are often given on the yearly anniversary of employment (typically an extra $1/hr), and when another baby joins the family. Christmas bonuses, Christmas gifts and birthday gifts are also often given.
– Overtime: Overtime is time and a half. If your nanny stays after 9pm, employers usually send them home in a taxi since most people do not drive in New York.
– Vacation: The average vacation duration seemed to be 2 weeks, which was often taken over the Christmas break.
– Taxes, Accounting Fees, Unemployment Insurance, Worker’s Comp: Because we paid on the books, we paid for quarterly taxes, worker’s comp/disability insurance ($400/year). Many people in our area also opt to use a local accountant, who charges $400/year to do nanny taxes.
– Classes/Activities: We enrolled Charlie in a number of music and gym classes starting from when he was 6 months old. Classes and memberships to indoor gyms can be pricey, but there isn’t much to do when it snows 6 months out of the year.
– Extracurricular Activities: Once Charlie was walking, he started doing a lot of extra curricular activities instead of attending classes. The children’s museum, the zoo, the aquarium, sing-a-longs, the occasional taxi and pocket money for snacks and beverages also add up.
The Cost of Daycare
– Tuition: The full time daycares in our area (8:00am – 6:00pm) range from $1500 – $2200/month or $16,500 – $24,200/year.
– Summer vacation: Some daycares close for summer vacation. Ours closes for an entire month (during which you do not pay tuition) so you have to find backup childcare.
– Backup childcare: Daycares close for every holiday and children in daycare also get sick more often, so you may also have to pay for backup childcare.
With all the extra expenses like taxes, insurance, and extracurricular activities, a nanny can cost significantly more than daycare. Life was much easier with a nanny because we didn’t have to do drop offs or pickups, and our nanny helped prepare Charlie’s food, did his laundry, and the dishes. But the benefits of daycare at this age are also numerous including socialization with same-aged children and authority figures other than adults.
How much does childcare cost in your neck of the woods?
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apple seed / 4 posts
The going rate where I am (Lower Merion suburbs of Philly) is around $12-15/hour for babysitters. I’m not sure about daycare, but preschools run from 8000-25,000 per year for full day programs. I feel like they should graduate with some sort of degree!
GOLD / pomelo / 5167 posts
Wow. Completely the opposite here in Quebec. Daycare costs me about 3500$ a year.
honeydew / 7968 posts
i can see why my sister in law decided to be a sahm! definitely paying a full salary for a nanny! and college tuition for daycare!
blogger / watermelon / 14218 posts
I’ve heard over and over that childcare rates in the Boston area are the highest in the country. We luckily found a great affordable daycare that’s run by a nonprofit organization in our suburb town. I think if I wanted to start childcare before we did, when he was still a baby, I’d prefer a nanny. Probably with the next one I’ll want to take at least 4-5 months maternity leave, then have one of the grandmas come for a few months, then move to daycare by the time the child is walking, eating table foods, and down to 1-2 naps a day. I’m such a control freak.
apricot / 321 posts
My area of West LA is similar to what you’ve described in Park Slope. We pay our nanny a weekly salary rather than by the hour, but it works out to about what you’ve outlined here.
apple seed / 2 posts
Here in North Carolina (central), a nanny runs about $150/week. My friend who uses a daycare pays $125/week for a 13 month old. If we lived in Raleigh it would be higher, but since we live outside, we are taking full advantage!
pea / 20 posts
Sounds very similar to Vancouver, Canada. But then, I think we and NYC keep fighting over that Most Expensive Cities in the World award…
pomelo / 5178 posts
In northern California, our nanny cost about the same as yours did; however, our daycare is quite a bit cheaper. For the most expensive daycare in town, we’re paying about $900/month until DD turns 2, then the rate will drop.
apple seed / 1 posts
We pay our Korean nanny/grandma $1,200/mo to watch our 14-month-old here in Southern California. We’re probably paying her more than another Korean nanny/grandma in LA’s Koreatown, but when it’s broken down by hour, we’re only paying $7ish an hour. Since returning to work a few weeks ago, the mornings have been so hectic, I can even imagine how I would be able to squeeze in a drop off to a daycare!
pea / 21 posts
We pay $3400 a month for daycare for our 16 month twin girls. They’ve been enrolled since when they were 5 month olds. I have to say balancing work and daycare has been a challenge. I work in Manhattan but we live in Long Island the daycare is in Long Island, so I have to rush home everyday just so that I can pick them up in time. Otherwise, it’s $1 a minute overtime and min is $20.
pea / 11 posts
I’m Louisville, KY (shout out to the midwest!!) Luckily, I work on a school campus that has a preschool (starting at age 1) through high school and I will be taking full advantage of the 50% discount on tuition for employees – that was one of the main reasons I took this job a couple years ago! Cost is $225 per week at the preschool for a full time mid August – May program. Since its considered preschool, summer term isn’t included, but offered and since I’m a 12 month employee here I’ll be using it. Looking at infant care using a child care facility (my family is all in VA so no grandmas here to help) the costs averages around the same as the preschool rate of $225 per week – some go up to $275 per week depending on location and facility. Sadly, from June 2012 through March 2013 will be a killer on our budget without the 50% discount
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
I live in Irvine, CA and I thought our daycare was expensive but not even close to what you guys pay in NYC! A montessori school here is about $1000/month and another daycare/preschool I checked out was only $600/month for 7-6pm… 5 days a week.
coffee bean / 39 posts
We’re paying about 1200/mon for daycare in the Philly burbs… would love to have a Korean nanny/grandma like Konayipark for that price, especially when M was still just a baby! Now that she’s older and in the toddler room, she seems to really love it.
pea / 11 posts
I have been wondering about the pros and cons and the costs involved for both so this is quite helpful.
coffee bean / 30 posts
It would be interesting to see a post comparing the cost of a nanny vs. daycare vs. pre-school. Most pre-schools in NYC for the 2s programs are only 3 days a week for 2.5 hours per day and the cost ranges between $10K-$30K. Ridiculous!
cherry / 171 posts
OMG. I would be paying a nanny half my salary to raise my baby. This makes me very blessed to have my Mom and MIL daycare sharing the Bug. It really will takes a village to raise my baby.
cherry / 207 posts
It’s $389 per week for infant and up to 2 years old care (structured school daycare, not home based) here in the SF bay area. Nanny is at least $15 per hour but usually more like $20 and up.
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